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Finding Joy in being who God made you to be

Sunday, January 22nd, 2012

That was the title of my message today from Philippians 1:6, “…being confident of this that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” I ended with an incredibly powerful poem by Russell Kelfer. Maybe you need to read this every day this week and find joy in God’s good work in you!

You are who you are for a reason.

You’re part of an intricate plan.

You’re a precious and perfect unique design,

Called God’s special woman or man.

You look like you look for a reason.

Our God made no mistake.

He knit you together within the womb,

You’re just what he wanted to make.

The parents you had were the ones he chose,

And no matter how you may feel,

They were custom-designed with God’s plan in mind,

And they bear the Master’s seal.

No, that trauma you faced was not easy.

And God wept that it hurt you so;

But it was allowed to shape your heart

So that into his likeness you’d grow.

You are who you are for a reason,

You’ve been formed by the Master’s rod.

You are who you are, beloved,

Because there is a God!

Have a joy-filled week!

Tim

12 Gifts of Christmas

Wednesday, December 28th, 2011

gifts of Christmas

A number of people asked me for the Scripture references that I used in the Christmas Eve service, so I am providing them along with the corresponding ‘gift’ that we all have received through a relationship with Jesus Christ. We are abundantly blessed in this life and the next because of the birth and death of Jesus!

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Satisfied

Thursday, July 28th, 2011

fishermanIn preparing for my message for this Sunday on contentment, I came across a story that I want to pass along.  It may speak to some of us who struggle being satisfied with life as it is.

Standing on a small pier late one afternoon, an investment banker from a large city who was vacationing along the North Carolina coast, watched as a lone fisherman docked his small boat. Inside the boat were several large yellowtail tuna.

The banker complimented the fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them.

The fisherman replied, “Only a little while.”

The banker then asked, “Why didn’t you stay out longer and catch more fish?”

The local responded, “With this I have more than enough to feed my family and share some with my friends.”

The banker then asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?” (more…)

Weeds

Friday, June 17th, 2011

thistle flowerThis morning on my walk I passed an overgrown area filled with weeds. To be honest, it wasn’t very attractive or inviting to look at. In fact, there was even some trash thrown among the weeds. But among the weeds and trash was this thistle in full bloom and it was absolutely beautiful. I reflected on this scene and was reminded that amongst all the unsightly or undesirable parts of our lives, God brings forth some beauty.

If you are feeling like your present life is full of weeds and trash, look around. I bet you can find something beautiful that God has planted there to remind you of his presence, care and faithfulness.

Lamentations 3:22-23, “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.

Tim

Character

Wednesday, April 6th, 2011

Along with my daily Bible reading I have been reading through a tiny book called “God’s Little Instruction Book on Character”.  I bought the book years ago and read it during our family devotional times with our son. The book is laid out very simply with a Bible verse and a quote on character on each page. Here are my ‘top picks’ of quotes on character:

“Life is a grindstone. Whether it grinds you down or polishes you up depends on what you are made of.”

“Character isn’t inherited. One builds it daily by the way one thinks and acts, thought by thought, action by action.”

“If all the gold in the world were melted down into a solid cube it would be about the size of an eight-room house. If a man got possession of all that gold – billions of dollars worth, he could not buy a friend, character, peace of mind, clear conscience, or a sense of eternity.”

“The best index to a person’s character is (a) how he treats people who can’t do him any good, and (b) how he treats people who can’t fight back.”

“Character: When you have the same ailments as the other person but refrain from mentioning it.”

“Character is not made in crisis – it is only exhibited.”

“Live in such a way that you would not be ashamed to sell your parrot to the town gossip.”

“Leadership is a potent combination of strategy and character. But if you must be without one, be without the strategy.”

“It is the character of very few people to honor without envy a friend who has prospered.”

“Character may be manifested in the great moments, but it is made in the small ones.”

There you have it; my top picks. Take one or two of these quotes that stood out to you, write them down and put them somewhere where you can read them every day for the next week. And parents why not take this list and read it to your family around the dinner table? You may be encouraged with the discussion that follows.

Tim

Purity of the Heart

Sunday, January 30th, 2011

Today I preached on the topic of lust  from Jesus’ words in the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5:27-30.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery’. But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.”

If you want to hear the message, go to riveroaks.org media center and click on January 30th message, “Lust of the Eyes”.

In the message I mentioned some helps for men that I would put on my blog and here they are. I trust some of these ideas will be helpful to you in keeping a pure heart.

1.      A very helpful on-line accountability tool for men can be downloaded at x3watchfree.com. X3watch is a free accountability software program helping with online integrity. Whenever you browse the Internet and access a site, which may contain questionable material, the program will record the site name, time, and date the site was visited. A person of your choice (an accountability partner) will receive an email containing all possible questionable sites you may have visited within the month. For additional helps go to XXXchurch.com

2.      If you are in an accountability group or a small group Bible Study you might want to give copies of these questions from Chuck Swindoll to each man and ask one or two each week along with whatever else you do:

Have you been with a woman this week in such a way that was inappropriate or could have looked to others that you were using poor judgment?

Have you been completely above reproach in all your financial dealings this week?

Have you exposed yourself to any sexually explicit material this week?

Have you spent daily time in prayer and in the Scriptures this week?

Have you taken time to be with your wife this week/children this week?

Have you just lied to me?

3.      Two books that Scott Tilley, our Adult Ministries Pastor recommends for men dealing with sexual sins:

The Game Plan

Wired For Intimacy: How pornography Hijacks the Male Brain

Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 6:18, “Flee from sexual immorality!” May we be men with a firm resolve to live our Christian faith out in our thought life!

Tim

Words on worry

Friday, December 10th, 2010

This morning in my quiet time I came to Jesus’ words recorded in Matthew 6:25-34 about worry. I have read these words dozens of times, but each time the simple truth continues to bring a soothing calm to my heart and mind. Perhaps you could use Jesus’ words today as well. And after you have read Jesus’ words, click on the link below for some great quotes on worry.

25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?

28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

Check out this list of quotes about worry!

Tim

The Law of Sacrifice

Wednesday, November 10th, 2010

This morning I pulled a book off my shelf that I have read more than once. It is John Maxwell’s book, The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership. I happened to read the chapter entitled, “The Law of Sacrifice”. This law of leadership states that for a leader to go up he has to give up. Towards the end of the chapter he included a statement from Martin Luther King Jr. from a speech he gave in Memphis:

“I don’t know what will happen to me now. We’ve got some difficult days ahead. But it doesn’t matter to me now. Because I’ve been to the mountaintop. I won’t mind. Like anybody else, I would like to live a long life. Longevity has its place. But I’m not concerned about that now. I just want to do God’s will. And He’s allowed me to go up to the mountain. And I’ve looked over and I’ve seen the Promised Land. I may not get there with you, but I want you to know tonight that we, as a people, will get to the Promised Land. So I’m happy tonight…I’m not fearing any man. Mine eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the Lord.”

The next day Martin Luther King, Jr. was shot and killed.

Sacrifice is an essential part of leadership. It is a given. Even Jesus, our Ultimate Leader, was at his core a servant.

Philippians 2:5-8, “Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death — even death on a cross!”

I was reminded again that in my position I need to be a servant to the body of River Oaks, the staff, the elders and deacons. It is just ‘part of the job’; it comes with the territory. It is both a huge responsibility but it is also a high calling!

What about you? Where are you a leader or where are you responsible for others? Today, find ways to serve them because,  in order to go up, you have to give up.

Tim

Rest for your soul

Thursday, November 4th, 2010

This morning in my quiet time I was reading in Matthew and came to 11:28-30 which says, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.”

I stopped and prayed for those in the River Oak’s family who are, for whatever reason, feeling weary or are carrying heavy burdens. I know many of you are dealing with stressful financial issues, health concerns, the pressures of no job, issues with children or parents, or are in a season of discouragement or depression. I prayed that you would find rest for your souls today as you lean into Christ. May you find him sufficient today for whatever is dragging you down by accepting his invitation to come to him… and find rest for your soul.

Tim

Sanctification

Wednesday, October 20th, 2010

This past Sunday I encouraged everyone to read Colossians 3:5-17 each day this week. I have and if you haven’t started yet, I hope you will start today. It is one of the great ‘sanctification challenges’ in the Bible.  Sanctification is the process of growing more and more into the image of Jesus, as Paul wrote in Colossians 3:10 “Put on your new nature, and be renewed as you learn to know your Creator and become like him.”

As you read and reflect on these great verses, I have no doubt that God’s Spirit will bring things to mind for you to consider, start, stop, or develop in your life in order to become more like Christ. Here is Colossians 3:5-17 in the New Living Translation. I challenge you to read it every day for seven days.

“So put to death the sinful, earthly things lurking within you. Have nothing to do with sexual immorality, impurity, lust, and evil desires. Don’t be greedy, for a greedy person is an idolater, worshiping the things of this world. Because of these sins, the anger of God is coming. You used to do these things when your life was still part of this world. But now is the time to get rid of anger, rage, malicious behavior, slander, and dirty language. Don’t lie to each other, for you have stripped off your old sinful nature and all its wicked deeds. Put on your new nature, and be renewed as you learn to know your Creator and become like him. In this new life, it doesn’t matter if you are a Jew or a Gentile, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbaric, uncivilized, slave, or free. Christ is all that matters, and he lives in all of us. Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful. Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.”

Tim